I was asked to speak for 8 minutes about angel investing recently at the Levin
Institute. The audience was composed of 35 entrepreneurs who had all
started a business.
***I'm paraphrasing here so I sound much better in text than I did live and improvising at the event.***
I'd like to talk about the celebrated "friends and family round." It
seems almost all entrepreneurs have raised money from friends and
family. How many of you in this audience have raised money from friends
and family? (I think 3 raised their hands with pride)
I'm going to argue today that raising a "friends and family round"
first is the wrong thing to do. Everyone does this first before they go
out to raise money from strangers or the bank. I'm going to argue that
this is the exact wrong order. Why?
Since we're talking about angels, let me get a little biblical on you.
In the beginning....(pause) everything looks good. You've got a great
idea. You're going to get fabulously rich while making millions of
customers very happy. You have more enthusiasm and energy than you've
ever possessed before. You believe 100% that you will succeed. This is
when you are most seductive. Worse yet - your friends and family are
the people most likely to believe you and be seduced by you! Except for
your mother-in-law but she's another story.
But your friends and family are the last people you should be seducing.
Because as history runs its course, your startup will encounter
disasters of biblical proportions. There will be droughts, famines, and
pestilence in the form of flaky suppliers, non-paying customers,
unreliable employees, and the dreaded cash flow devil. Things will
inevitably go wrong. How you solve the problems will determine how
successful an entrepreneur you will become.
But when these disasters happen - investors go crazy. They start
breathing down your neck and asking why you haven't made them a fortune
already. You don't want these people to be your friends and your
family. You want these people to be strangers.
You see, when you raise money from investors, you should treat that
money as sacred. You're going to be aggressive and try to build a
company of great value for sure, but you should be very careful how you
spend that money. It's a balancing act that requires passion and
rationality. But when that money comes from Aunt Ruth or Uncle Ralph or
your buddy Frank, all sorts of emotional demons come into the picture.
This emotion hampers your ability to make rational and passionate
decisions. This in turn hampers your ability to be the best
entrepreneur you can be. Your startup may still succeed - plenty have
with friends and family money - but they probably could've grown bigger
faster better without.
You should raise money from strangers. If you can't sell your vision
and a part of you company to strangers, then how will you be able to
convince a stranger to buy your product? One of the keys to success as
an entrepreneur is how well you sell. Everything. You, your vision,
your company, your product, your service. To everyone. Your customers,
your suppliers, your vendors, your bank, and even your investors.
So you might as well start by selling to the most difficult people.
Strangers, real angel investors who are skeptical. Not your Uncle Bob
or your buddy Sam who want to believe in you.
So do it backwards. Friends and family. They should be a last resort
not the first resort! Raise money from friends and family after you've
tried everyone else! After you've lost that initial shine as a brand
new entrepreneur. After you've faced a ton of rejections. After you've
become a little less seductive. Then if you still need their money, and
let's hope you won't, they'll know exactly what they're getting into.
Because when the difficult times come, you're going to need your real
friends and family to be there to support you and love you.
Thank you all for your time. I think what you're doing is amazing and a big inspiration to me.
(Their questions afterward were pretty good too.)